Be Ready for the Ambush
May 26, 2021
Recently, Ursula von der Leyen, the first female president of the European Commission, took to the podium at the European Parliament to declare…
What Amazons Can Teach Us, Why "Second Daughters" Matter, and How You Are Going To Change the World
January 14, 2020
Earlier this week, Russian scientists discovered the tomb of four Amazon warrior women, aged 13-50…
Can Progressive and Conservative Women End the Gender Wars—Together?
August 8, 2021
As a young girl growing up in 1970’s Pittsburgh, I had two preoccupations: Becoming a wide-receiver in the NFL, and…
On "Leaning" and Winning
I’ve had the pleasure recently of working with two different groups of executive women who absolutely knew their worth. The problem was, knowing their worth wasn’t translating into satisfaction or fairness at work…
It's All for Them
September 19, 2019
Nothing we do as human beings is more important than raising our children in a loving and safe way…
Authenticity Wins the Day, Every Time
August 8, 2019
Here's the thing about Elizabeth Warren: What you see is what you get. She's hotly passionate, fiercely intelligent, and unequivocal. She is never not those things. You may not like her, but you know what you're getting…
Want to Get Ahead? Get Comfortable with Confrontation
July 15, 2019
One of my clients called me, breathless, the other day, to ask for my advice about something that had taken place at a meeting the day before. An outspoken member of her executive team had blown up…
The Personal is Professional
June 18, 2019
Young women today have more freedom to choose what they want to do and who they want to be than ever before. We’re in a moment of “Women are powerful!” But are we, really?
Sometimes "Playing the Game" Means Doing Less
June 4, 2019
If you are working in a fast-paced male-dominated environment, it helps to remember that “excellence” sometimes lives in the promise of your words, not their packaging…
Women: Refuse to “Play the Game” at Your Peril
May 21, 2019
The change was subtle, not sudden, and one day she woke up and realized she’d been sidelined…She needed to re-establish the credibility with her boss that she had clearly lost…
The Secret to Happiness? Take Responsibility for Everything.
April 26, 2019
Do I think that women have been kept from being their authentic selves over time and across cultures? Yes, without a doubt. But…so what? Why let that stop you from living your life, right now?
What the 2020 Hopefuls Can Teach Us About Commanding a Room
January 23, 2019
Watch closely, and you’ll see that a great presentation isn’t about “confidence,” but rather about comfort…and having the courage to draw your audience in…
What the Blue Wave Says About America’s Future
November 7, 2018
Americans are locked in a battle for the soul of our country--an exhausting, disquieting fight that seems to have no end. But it will end…
Why the Megyn Kelly Flap Matters
October 25, 2018
In her recent apology, Megyn Kelly declared, “I have never been a P.C. kind of person.” Neither have I. It’s too easy these days to overreact with indignation at something taken out of context. But that is not what happened here…
Guns…Again.
October 2, 2018
How does one talk to 7-year-olds about the threat of a massacre?..
Judge Kavanaugh is About to Unleash a New Side of #MeToo
September 24, 2018
The real question Christine Blasey Ford’s testimony during Thursday’s Supreme Court nomination hearing will raise is not “Did it happen?” but “Who cares?”
Taking Control of Your Life, Grunge-Style
September 16, 2018
I have a secret obsession: listening to post-grunge rock while working out. Nothing fuels a sprint on the bike like a hard-driving chorus of “Higher…”
Clarity is Your Power
September 13, 2018
Being straightforward can be hard because it requires you to be comfortable with your authority, confident in your point of view, and unconcerned about others’ perceptions of you—three things that are essential to leadership…
It Works for Bill Gates, But Will it Work for You?
August 6, 2018
I was surprised this morning when a client asked for my advice about time management. This is a fast-moving, take-no-prisoners, highly accomplished social media guru. She knows how to get stuff done. What she wanted to talk about was how to get more stuff done…
Managing Clients Without Losing Your Soul
July 19, 2018
Every world-class creative firm I have worked with believes the same thing—that they are the only ones who are taken to task by their clients. They are certain that their competitors are much tougher, laying down the law with clients and telling them what to do. This, of course, is a myth…