Five Lessons for Women from New York’s New Governor

August 17, 2021

Lieutenant Governor Kathy Hochul will soon be leading New York. If you don't know her, watch her here. And note the 5 qualities she possesses that are critical for any woman who wants to lead at the highest level:

1. Indomitable

One day after the Governor’s resignation, Hochul held a press conference during which it seemed she was already running things. She clearly relishes the opportunity to lead, and embraces the power that the governorship will grant her. At age 62, any imposter syndrome that might have once been there has thoroughly washed away. 

If you are in your 30’s or 40’s or 50’s, it’s time to recognize your greatness, and give yourself credit for your talent and accomplishments. The world needs you.

2. Game-Ready

It can take time to make your way as an executive woman, but never forget that opportunity is always just a moment away. No one ever expected Andrew Cuomo to resign, even after credible accusations of sexual harassment came to light. But he did. And then, in an instant, all attention turned to Hochul. And out she stepped into the limelight, fully ready to go. 

3. Tough

In New York politics, even when you’re the one at the top, you have to be ready to take some blows, and when necessary, deliver some. Hochul seems more than ready for this.

Confrontation is a fundamental aspect of the “male power game,” as the whole game is about jockeying for position in the hierarchy. But that doesn’t mean you have to be confrontational in your own demeanor. It simply means you have to be ready for whatever comes your way, and prepared to stand your ground, no matter what. (Think Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg, soft-spoken but tough-as-nails.)

4. Clear

Here’s where true power lies. During that first press conference, Hochul was prepared, concise, and clear, both in her words and in her body language, as she often looked directly into the camera to make her point.

Being powerful isn’t about being loud, or domineering. It is simply about knowing who you are, and then being that. And knowing what you stand for, and then standing for that. Power is about having the courage to be clear and authentic, period.

5. Unapologetically Female

We all know women who made their way to the top by imitating male behaviors, which sometimes includes offering no support to other women.

Hochul’s description of her leadership style as “Listen first, then take decisive action” and of her commitment to a “collaborative” work environment describe a woman’s way of leading if there ever was one. What I hope we’ll see from a Hochul administration is a woman who clearly knows how to play the “male power game,” but who unapologetically leads in her own way—like a woman.

My fingers are crossed for a Hochul administration—and for you, as you lead in your own life.